‏النكاح : Hadeeth No:3346 Jabir (Allaah be pleased with him) reported that Allaah's Messenger (may peace he upon him) said: When any one of you is invited to a feast, he should accept it. He may eat if he likes, or he may abandon (eating) if he likes. Ibn Mathanni did not make mention of the word" feast"....

‏فضائل الصحابة‏ : Hadeeth No:6044 Jabir reported: My father was brought in a state that his ears had been cut off and (his dead body) was placed before Allaah's Prophet (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam), the rest of the hadith is the same....